When I put it like that I also, abvisouly has to explain why. And the ture answer is that I actually don't really know, but it has to do with the experiences I had in the past, stories I heard and movies I've seen....
I really think Italian men can be very extremely charming, romantic and lovely but I've met too many idiots and liers on my way that I really find it hard to trust new people I meet. I've been told I don't give people a fair chance and maybe iit's true. I know I need to risk to be able to win. I need to open up and let people in to be able prove to myself that I'm wrong. But the fact that two of the guys that have hurt me the most in life have been two lying Italians doesn't really make it very easy...
If I decide to stay in Italy I know I need to change my attitude against Italian men. I am meeting and getting to know so many nice people here in Milan, so maybe it is time for me to break my hard wall I'm keeping up and give them a chance. A third chance...
xoxo
~ Eminem & Rihanna~ Love the way you lie ~
Love love love this song. The Eminem I once adored is back with lots of good music!! :)
Love love love this song. The Eminem I once adored is back with lots of good music!! :)
ja italianos ar ju inte direkt kanda for att vara de basta killarna direkt mrn snygga e de hihi :o)
ReplyDeleteja italianos ar ju inte direkt kanda for att vara de basta killarna direkt mrn snygga e de hihi :o)
ReplyDeleteMan maste vaga for att vinna! Var inte radd for karleken, det ar det basta som finns. Det starkaste vi manniskor kan na.
ReplyDeleteLove your blog!
Deep words babe but im not surprised. U looked amazing together with ur italian mini man but obviously he wasnt good for u. Well, like the girls already said u have to believe its easy. U have all those guys waiting for u, choose and shoot. Mohahah
ReplyDeleteSe ci hai creduto una volta lo rifarai!! Non siamo tutti stronzi, ti giuro piccolina.
ReplyDeleteTi ho visto ieri sera al'old ma eri un pochetino impegnata ;)
Hahahaha my opinion about Italian men you already know, never ever am I going out with an Italian ;)
ReplyDeleteBetter for us italians... we never we would go out with such boring and naif people. .
DeleteAs regards italian liars: are they stupid or not?
I think it s much more stupid who believes them:)
If you cannot recognize a liar from a honest person it is your problem.. and if your solution is to avoid all the people of that natinality.. it means that is better you close yourself at home...
You are right, sweetheart, never trust Italian men, they are just liars, nothing else.
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you are right Sweet one, Dont EVER trust Italians Men and women too. Maybe it seems like discrimination but its going to save your life. There maybe some good Italainsnthat you can trust but not many and its not woth the risk. The reason is that in Italy lying and been cunning are send as virtues not as something wrong, so people here have a value system that is not like non italians have. The code of silence when they see a crime or see a man cheating and lying thats normal for them. Now if you were Italian then no problem you would understand the rules of the game and if you marry then younknow what to expect from your man, and maybe you cheat on him too, it normal right?
ReplyDeleteNo its not, your life as a foreigner will become a nightmare. Run now while you can.
when I came to Italy 11 years ago I ws a happy successful healthy romantic trusting person with and open heart I fell in love with Italy and its surface charms. and it destroyed me, the aitalin man I married who said he was different with such an open mind, turned out to be a lying cheating cruel person who got fun out of abusing me, him and his cafone family who I loved they played with me like a cat plays with a mouse.
Now im trapped here trying to divorce this monster in an Italin legal system that is rotten and broken where there is no justice. I will leave Italy with no money (after earning a lot) no house which I payed for, my health and heart broken, but a have my life at least I will start again much more wary.
I can do this because I am determined not to let these basturds kill me, I can do this because I never had a child with this man, if I did I would have to leave without my child. as has happened to my friends.
This is just me you say, no my dear, ALL my foreign friends who are women here have had similar experiences and run away from this place to scared to look back over the shoulder. Run my dear run before you fall in love. Itsly is great for a long holiday, Italy is great if you can have enough money to be independent here and meet some lovely men from other nations who are also visiting here on holiday, but dont fall into the trap here its very hard to get out many dont.
at the moment in Italy the commorra have been taken over by a female mafia boss, she is worse than her males before her. They are desttoying society and they are in the state and government, they are everywhere even Milan. keep your eyes open my dear.
By the way I love your blog is really nice,well done.
feel free to email me if I can help you with houses, work etc from my contacts I live in Como and am often in Milan.
Be safe, stay happy
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If you are so stupid it' s not italians' blame.. your singular case it s not the reality.. thanks god in the world there are much better people than the idiots who write in this blog.
DeleteTry to study and read in order to understand how many things Europe stole from italian culture.
I never read so many poor retard people as in this blog..
Anonymous- your very brave to tell your experience because it is SO SO painfully close to the truth.
ReplyDeleteitalians are cunning, deceitful and conceited. Don't believe it, go and live there for at least 3 or 4 months.
I did. I lived in Milan for almost four years and I guess if I would have written the blog post today I would had expressed myself differently.
ReplyDeleteHowever, unfaithfulness is nowadays part of the Italian culture even if obviously there are cases of good Italian men too! :-)
Racism at its finest. Wow.
ReplyDeleteI bet you have been dating a "terrone". We also hate them, for 'we' I mean 'normal' Italians
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you my friend
ReplyDeleteNever trust Italian. Or someday you can end up like passengers of Costa Concordia.
ReplyDeleteAgree! Bad experience with an Italian I met online. Long distance as we were continents apart. He couldn't talk about anything else other than sex. His English was so bad that I had to learn his language - things i did for him! In the end, the bastard was cheating on me with an Asian. Learnt my lesson but having said that, I am sure, like any other culture, there are good Italian men out there, just not for me.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you dear, Italians are great liars & cheaters! They will tell you a lot of flowery words, well in- fact they are telling it to a lot of girls, also they will tell you promises but non of these will come true! Trust me, I have dated Italians & I thought they are not the same in general but I was wrong at least most of them have the same attitude ohhh, such a bad experience... :(
ReplyDeleteI had a bad with an Italian too. I love him and do a lot of thing for him but in the end he blocked me all without a word. Very smart and i think of future with him. Until now i also dont know what happens to make him left without a word even i went italia 2 times to know him and we had 3 years in relationships without anny argument. Bad behaving
ReplyDeleteThanks I found this blog as I was wondering about this matter. Couldn't believe that I trusted this Italian guy with his charming words. What a liar. People from other nationalities don't promise people too much when they know they can't keep their promises. I didn't know about this before until I read this blog and found out that lying and cheating is so normal for them. Unbelievable! I decided to stop any contact with this person because I felt things were not going right and instead of saying sorry, he gave so much excuses showing his ego. Once again! I'm done and thanks again for this blog 😊
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